Shake it, baby

A handshake tells it all.

 A handshake is not as simple as it looks. It may well be the starting point or, may be, not of the new job type you are hankering for.

Here is a list of different kinds of handshakes and what they say about a person

The flabby handshake

A limp, soft paw that feels like a piece of sponge. Indicate a pessimist who needs reassurance before anything else.

The squeeze

They squeeze your hand too hard. These people, usually men, want to show their strength and power. Possibly to cover up an inferiority complex. Meet their needs with flattery.

The next-to-the-body handshake

The arm and elbow are bent and the right hand stays close to the side. This is the handshake favoured by politicians and others who are hesitant to take risks. Use caution with these folks.

The impelling handshake

It is used by people who never miss an opportunity to shake hands. As soon as they meet you, they thrust their hand forward and shake with vigour. They seem insecure, so use more insistence than usual.

The non-gripping handshake

Not really a handshake at all. The hand is thrust forward and the fingers do not move. These people say, “I do not want to get involved.” Approach slowly.

The robot

The hand is offered quickly and automatically. These people are indifferent and self-interested. When dealing with them, indulge in hard bargain.

The jackhammer

These hand-pumpers have a lot of will power and tend to be inflexible. You will have to be even more determined than they are.

The prison handshake

These people hold your hand and will not leave it until they get your full attention. These people may be opportunist. Emphasize on the good fortune it is that you met each other, and pursue your objectives.

The normal handshake

·         This open, honest handshake means you can trust your instincts with the person.

·         Ensure your hands are clean and dry and free of perspiration.

·     Wait for the interviewer to offer his/her hand. Do not initiate the handshake as this portrays dominance. However, if you do, do not suddenly pull back as this will give an impression of   indecisiveness.

·       When invited, offer your hand, with your palm in vertical position. Turning your hand with your palm facing down in the handshake, is symbolic of dominance, whereas offering your hand, palm up, portrays submissiveness.

·      Exert a similar pressure to that of the interviewer, as with the palm position; a limp handshake will portray weakness and lack of confidence. Crushing the interviewer’s hand will exhibit dominance.

The handshake should last for not more than three to five seconds, with a maximum of six pumps. Any longer or shorter,