It
is good for a woman to work outside the house—then she has less time to gossip
with the neighbours. Besides, it is said that a woman makes a better employee
than a man. She is attentive, obedient, tidy, and efficient—in fact, she has
all the qualities in office that are expected of her at home.
In the office,
she is a business executive, private secretary, salesgirl, typist or clerk; at
home, she is the boss. It would be an interesting situation should a wife,
working in the same office as her husband, have to take orders from him.
For
too long now has woman needed a change from her place by the sink; her change
in work appears to have done the man-of-the-house some good—he is kept
physically fit by the bending exercise provided by household chores.
A
man’s way of living today is largely determined by his wife’s desire to reap
benefits outside the home. He need no longer struggle to pay for her
luxuries—all he needs to do is to resign himself to a little homework.
It does
not perturb him that she has not sufficient time to cook and serve a proper
meal, or cope with the mess at home. What matters more is that she is learning
a new and rare virtue, the virtue of arriving on time.
She
may now have less time to devote to her children—but she has few children to
look after. She has decided upon a small family: it being rather awkward for
her to request her employers for maternity leave every other year. Her being
away from home also does away with the problem of unwanted guests.
It
is her privilege to earn, but her birthright to spend. She learns to spend long
before she sets out to earn. With her spouse’s money going out and her own
coming in, the better half is also the better off.
The
competition between them is almost over. The mere male finds his position in
the office more and more usurped by his female counterpart, while any offer of
help from him at home is welcomed. Soon, he will be wondering if it isn’t the
most natural thing in the world to find the woman at the computer and the man
at the sink.
Some men shudder at this prospect. They compel their wives to stay
at home. Others shudder to think of their wives at home. They let them go to
work. Then it is like the boss being away.
But
sometimes, the exit of one woman means the entry of another—the mother-in-law.
In such a maze of circumstances, they are forced to realise that this is a
world of Eves where Adam is overpowered by Madam.
No comments:
Post a Comment