Aspiring for love

 It’s human nature to aspire for someone’s love and attention. We all want to be loved and so  always look forward to other people’s approval before doing anything. Given below are some ways to help make someone love you.

Be independent… it is hard enough to take care of one’s ownself, let alone be  responsible for someone else.

Be attentive to others.  It feels good if we have a person who listens to us, someone who  cares about what you are saying. Don’t let anyone know exactly how you feel about them. Keep them guessing and this in turn will keep them on their toes and you will not be taken for granted.

Do not tell everything about yourself to others in the beginning. If they know everything about you, you will become boring to them. Let it be a mystery.

Never tell them about your faults or shortcomings. If you have any faults they will come to know about it later on. Don’t begin a relationship with your negative points but let people think of you as a strong and well-adjusted person and let them be proud of what you are.

Always be thrilled to hear from people you know. Show excitement in your voice when they call you. When you see them let your face light up with pleasure. This will please   them and they will call you more often and talk highly of you.